Friday, 2 May 2014

Finding Happiness...

Hi,

I'm writing this blog to vent out my feelings .I have been  melancholy, frustrated, irritated and all the negative emotions anyone can feel.My point here is to figure out what is the root cause of these erratic emotions.


The reasons I can think of are-

  • Moving back home after 5 long years
  • Not used to too much interference in my life by family
  • Long driving hours to office
  • Idiotic & senseless traffic jams
  • Long distance relationship
  • Constant fights with boyfriend
  • Discontment with my work
I have listed quite a few,but,the list is long. However ,when I introspect I feel are these factors big enough to determine my happiness.Am I mixing my daily routine with my life???

Yes, I am. Happiness cant be ordered , it needs to be cultivated.


 I realized I need to find my happiness while operating in this very Eco system,that I am the only one responsible for my own happiness. Happiness should not be linked to others or involuntary circumstances. A smile utilizes the minimum amount of effort &energy as compared to any other action or reaction.I have decided to find my own reasons for being happy.I plan to start with smiling on hearing my favorite song, eating a delicious meal, appreciating nature, taking care of myself,valuing gestures by friends & family, enjoying discussions with friends.These are few actions I plan to take with immediate effect.


As I approach the end of this blog,I am already feeling better.Thus, I will sign off by saying -



Keep Smiling & Be Happy!!!












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